Hi, this is difficult. We nurses call this scenario the "bottle wars" because if a baby hasn't been introduced to a bottle within the window of 3-6 weeks, they often will refuse to drink from anything other than their mama when offered other options later. It leads to lots of crying, from Mom to Baby and the unlucky caregiver who has to try to feed a very unhappy, screaming, hungry customer.
Prevention Strategy
If you’re going back to work and can’t feed your baby yourself, then here are a few tips:
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Absolutely, positively, do NOT wait until the day before you head out the door you’re your briefcase. To ease everyone’s transition back to work, offer your baby a bottle of pumped milk or formula between weeks 3-6, after breastfeeding is well established.
- If breastfeeding is going well, one bottle of pumped milk or formula will not interfere at this time.
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One of my patients came in the other day with a very red and sore breast. There was a large lump and she was having flu like symptoms.
Mastitis is no picnic.
It is caused by an infection in the breast or when a plugged duct
becomes infected. This develops quickly, is usually only on one side, and can
be extremely painful.
When to Call Your Provider:
- For a fever over 101
- If you notice a breast that is painful, red, hot to the touch, or swollen
- If you have flu like symptoms or feel achy all over
- There is blood or pus coming out of the nipple
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- What should I feed my baby?
- How should I feed my baby?
- When should I feed my baby?
Wow, they’re universal and they’re important. Every family has their own set of circumstances that determine the optimal answer to these questions. After 20 years, I’ve learned, one size doesn’t fit all, and the way I approach these questions is to start by listening, then asking more questions, then listening again.
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Here's a question I received this week:
My baby is 5 days old, and my milk hasn't come in yet. She's latching on, but wasn't having any wet or poopy diapers so the pediatrician suggested that we supplement with formula. How do I get my milk to come in?
It sounds like the Milk fairy hasn't made an appearance at your house yet.
Here's what I recommend:
- Please, as much as possible try to get plenty of rest
- Offer the baby your breast at each feeding, and after 10 minutes or so, offer her a bottle, to make sure that she's getting nutrition
- Try to pump 4-6 times each day, after feedings and see if you're producing
- Most moms get the highest volume in the morning, when they've had a chance to rest a bit
- Try a safe herb, Fenugreek, 3 times/day to help increase supply
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I saw a mom the other day who is pregnant with her 2nd
child. Her first baby is 16 months
old and she’s excited to be pregnant again. As we went over her previous
pregnancy, she related that she was much more relaxed this time. I was curious about that statement and
asked her to elaborate further.
Well, she explained, with her 1st pregnancy, she had to go on
bedrest for 10 weeks and that experience caused a huge and almost immediate
shift in how she felt about her life.
“You see,” she explained, “I was definitely a Type A person.
I had everything planned and did everything in my life perfectly. I had no time or patience for anyone
who didn’t measure up to my standards.
Then life threw me a curve ball and I woke up.”
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