Our Featured Guest Writer Today Is:
Paula Spencer, Senior Editor at Caring.com
While I was reviewing a list of Alzheimer’s disease symptoms the
other day, one in particular struck a bell – with an uncomfortable clang! Perseverating is where someone with dementia clings to a thought and uncontrollably returns to it over and over and can’t let it go.
No, I don’t have dementia. But in healthy-minded but way-too-stressed people, often women (check, check, check! ), this same obsessive thought pattern is known as rumination. And it’s a habit that can quickly become a caregiver stress swamp.
(The difference between perseverating and ruminating? People who don’t have dementia can control the hamster-on-a-wheel thoughts. This is important, and I’ll get back to it.)
I’m a champion ruminator! I’ve been known to gnaw a thought as
frantically and thoroughly as a squirrel turning a corncob to
cornstarch.